Sunday, March 28, 2010
You see the people-they are miserable because they have compromised every point, and they cannot forgive themselves because they have compromised. They know they could have dared, but they proved cowards. In their own eyes they have fallen,
they have lost self-respect. That's what compromise does. ~Osho~
Friday, March 26, 2010
My partner wrote the following paragraphs on his OKCupid profile.
I make no attempt to sell myself to anyone. I do not present any filtered profile or contrived photos as an advertisement or marketing attempt to get sex or a date or snag a partner. My purpose is to accurately and proudly proclaim what I believe and who I am. If you don't agree, or you don't feel comfortable with me, or don't like me, then move on and find a more conventional kinda guy, whom I'm sure will make you happer!
Further, don't waste your time reading further if the only reason you are here is that you are loooking for your lifelong monogamous spiritual partner!
Also, you probably won't like me if you are otherwise uptight and narrow minded about relationships and sexuality.
And also, if you are browsing anonymously, shame on you. Have you really been so brainwashed by Republicans that you are in imminent danger from terrorists, scam artists, thiefs, lecherous men, stalkers, immorality, Muslims, and liberals and that you better assume (that by default) everyone is out to get you and you protect yourself by hiding in the shadows?
OK; now I can continue with the few of you remaining.
I have a primary partner in a poly relationship. I am free to have other lovers without cheating, sneaking, lying, tricking, hiding, etc.